It took me a long time to build the courage to come to my first tantric massage session. I was at my lowest, both physically and mentally, I didn't feel feminine at all. When Aleksander told me to undress and cover myself with a sheet, I froze. Me, naked with all the extra kilos and he was going to touch me! We start the session, I'm listening to music and I can't relax. A real iceberg, blocked, and Aleksander is trying to soften me up. I couldn't even feel his touch like I could. What is wrong with me? Am I really completely numb? Then Aleksander whispers gently, "You deserve it." Tears came and my heart chakra woke up. The very next session was completely different. The iceberg began to melt, I was more relaxed and surrendered to Aleksander's hands. The feeling of shame was slowly disappearing, I was focusing on the touches, on the sensations. I didn't know I needed it so much. The changes started to show in my physical body as well, as I gained the will to move and lost 20 kilos. I also have my periods every month now, whereas before I always had irregular periods. I couldn't wait for each new session. Aleksander showed me a whole new world of sensuality, pleasure, touch. It's really another dimension, all your pores open up, your body comes alive. A woman's energy rises to infinity, not to mention the confidence in body acceptance that you discover. In his loving presence you feel like the queen of the world. His respect for a woman, his honest conversations, his professionalism - this is what every woman should experience. 

I turned to Aleksander for a tantric massage in 2019 (4 and a half years ago) because I was pregnant and more than a week overdue. Although I felt well, there was a lot of pressure from the doctors at the maternity hospital to induce labor, while I wanted a natural birth with the midwife of my choice. I didn't want to give in so I searched for alternative solutions.
I knew the theory that positive stimulation in the pelvic area and of course my whole body and particularly my mind, could help.
The tantric massage experience was interesting and definitely new. Although the situation was awkward at first, Aleksander took his time to make me feel comfortable and relaxed. He was very tentative and gentle, as well as creative to find the best comfortable positions for me and my big belly 😀
Although I can't say that I completely surrendered during the process, I did go into labor the next day. Of course it is difficult to say whether it was a result of Aleksander's massage or it would have happened anyway, but I am grateful for the whole experience.
Thank you Aleksander!

I don’t like to spout, so I’ll just put it in my own words: I felt like a goddess in your hands after a looong time... When I remember now how you were touching me and how you held me close in your arms, tears still come to my eyes... A priceless experience...

Before I came to Aleksander for a massage I tried to learn about tantric massage as much as possible. The theory of it was more or less clear to me; still, I did not know where this was going to take me. In any case, I experienced more than I expected.
I cannot say I felt fear, however, I was tense and most of all curious about what was to come. The first contact and conversation already broke the ice. I relaxed almost immediately and the first words of our conversation gave me enough courage to shed the last remnants of my restraints.
A comfortable ambience, suitable music, a warm touch, and Aleksander’s voice that held me in that room, all of that was enough for me to open myself up and accept what was offered. Such a session, naturally, requires intimacy. I think what made our meeting so magical was the balance between the subtle force that was carrying me away and Aleksander’s voice that was bringing me back to this world. On the one hand, my feelings were familiar but on the other hand, they were completely new, revealing themselves in new colours. I explored my sensuality gradually, layer by layer, until I crushed the blockage, and the joy through tears became cathartic. I felt what every woman should experience: that she has full support to be what she is. That she is accepted, loved, and full of love. For when you truly let go you can receive all of this in the rawest and most delicate form.
I contemplated the whole experience for days. I was surprised at how much peace it brought me and at the same time how much more it opened my senses although I was already very susceptible. I have gradually been noticing that, slowly but surely, my self-esteem is growing. After all, it was only a week or so after this experience that I had to undergo a trial that would have resulted in failure just a few months ago but now I dealt with it surprisingly well and the relief also brought laughter which has never before been so carefree. I am still making the rest of the steps on the path to my goal, slowly but surely, but I feel that now they will be easier. Aleksander, thank you for this gift!