Tantric Massage Workshop (29. – 31. March 2018 in Ljubljana, Slovenia)

We can use tantric massage for:

  • healing and spiritual development,
  • strengthening the heart connection with your partner,
  • experiencing deeper pleasure and achieving higher states of mind,
  • creating conditions for quality and long-lasting lovemaking instead of quick and superficial sex,
  • feeling and getting to know ourselves and our partner,
  • bringing the body back into the state of peace and power,
  • improving our own strength and compassion, which results in focus, clarity and effective stress management.

When we are connected with ourselves and we have our power back, the world is more beautiful and everything is easier. What was stressful before is now an interesting challenge.

We will learn the following at the weekend workshop:

  • tantra – history, philosophy and basic principles of this spiritual science,
  • tantric view of the sexual act and sexual energy,
  • practical exercises to strengthen sensuality, which is the foundation for feeling deep pleasure,
  • correct tantric massage technique,
  • appropriate psychophysical approach to massage,
  • healing points on the body,
  • anatomy and reflex points on and inside the genitals,
  • healing effects of tantric massage on the body, emotions and the mind,
  • G-spot – where it is located, what its purpose is and how to stimulate it,
  • do men also have a G-spot?
  • on male and female ejaculation.


Who is the workshop for?

For everyone who wishes to improve their health and sexual intercourse, which is superbly supported by tantric massage. It is meant for men and women, young people and the more experienced. You can come to the workshop by yourself or in pairs. The workshop includes nudity, which is why the speaker spends plenty of time creating a safe space; however, a certain degree of maturity and openness is expected. Sexual intercourse is not part of the workshop. It is important to create a harmonic group, which is why we reserve the right to turn anyone away.


Videos about tantric massage

Video 1: About tantric massage (TV show ‘Hot Stuff with Lea’, 7 min)

Video 2: Sexual Blockages and Tantric Massage (TV show ‘Chatting over a Cup of Coffee’, 22 min)


About the facilitators

The workshop is facilitated by Aleksander Lah and Ursha Drabik, both tantric massage therapists and tantric massage workshop facilitators.

Aleksander Lah is a tantric massage therapist with first-hand experience of tantric massage and its effects. He has been a professional tantric massage therapist since 2015 and has been working with healing and massages since 1995. He shares his knowledge of sexual energy and its rules and effects on the body and spirit. He has discovered from first-hand experience that a person (in the therapist-client relationship or in a partner relationship) progresses much more in the state of pleasure, relaxation, willingness, trust, warmth and especially in the orgasmic state. Circumstances of other methods in contrast to tantric massage do not provide such relaxation, trust and pleasure, and are more focused on the mind and consciousness, while tantric massage makes use of deeper physical energies that have a much greater power to transform the mind, the body, emotions and the consciousness. Experience shows that something which might be painful and uncomfortable in the normal state can be felt as pleasure, comfort, and stimulation during tantric massage (e.g. massaging certain points on the back or on the soles of the feet). Such conditions are much more favourable for healing and growth on both the physical and spiritual level.

Urša Drabik brings feminine energy, gentlness, care, dance, sensuality and the way of worshiping the goddess to the workshop and will demonstrate massages on men.


When and where

The workshop will take place from Friday, 29. to Sunday, 31 March 2019, every day from 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. at the Parinama center, Cesta na Brdo 85, Ljubljana, Slovenia (map)



399 € per person. Couples (man-woman) get 5 % discount.


More information and signing up at aleksander@HeartConnection.si… see you ☺


1) Why should I attend the workshop?

We will learn that touch, attention and gentleness are more powerful than we imagine. A client came for a session of tantric massage last week. She had a headache, she was cranky, felt sorry for herself and was getting on her own nerves… It was nice to observe how her strength and satisfaction slowly returned during tantric massage… Her headache disappeared and cheerfulness returned. All of this did not happen through straining, pain and suffering, but through relaxation, letting go, trusting her body, Life and the masseur, which brought about deep and healing orgasms. Although we do not understand all of our bodies’ secrets and do not know how our body works, we can use all of this to bring ourselves and others back into balance and harmony.

2) Does the workshop include nudity and intimate touching?

Yes, the workshop includes nudity and intimate touching.

3) What if I have issues with nudity and intimate touching?

We spend a long time creating a safe space. The attendees are usually able to relax and feel safe to a point where nudity no longer presents a challenge for them; however, every attendee of the workshop has the option to keep their intimate parts covered most of the time, which is why you need to bring a sarong or a robe to the workshop (see the picture on the right for an example of a robe).

We expect all workshop attendees to maintain a respectful and open attitude towards nudity and intimate touching, but of course some embarrassment and awkwardness is to be expected. Although the environment will be as safe and supportive of attendees as possible, it is expected of everyone to decide for themselves if they are comfortable in such a learning environment and if they are ready to open up and face their limitations regarding nudity and their possibly overcritical image of their body… And if they want to see their body in the light of divine perfection, see themselves as a unique version of a god/goddess, which is sometimes concealed under issues, traumas and blockages.

4) Do I need to come with a partner or can I come alone?

Persons who do not have a partner to pair up with can also attend the workshop. There will be an equal number of men and women at the workshop. If a person signs up for the workshop without a partner, he or she will be assigned a partner at the workshop.

5) Are the exercises done with the same partner throughout the workshop?

Paired up attendees who wish to be together throughout the workshop can stay together, although it is recommended for the pairs to swap, so that everyone can learn about different body types, energies and locations of energy points. If a person does not come to the workshop with a partner it is expected that they agree to swap partners during the workshop.

6) What if I come to the workshop alone and do not like the partner with whom I am doing the exercises?

In this case, it is possible to express a wish to swap partners and we will try to accommodate you as much as possible. However, a certain amount of maturity and openness is expected from our attendees to let life bring them new knowledge, even through a person they do not like. At the workshop we will also learn about a tantric skill called transfiguration which helps us see through superficial expressions and personality of a person, on a deeper level… It enables us to see the pleasant, divine and immortal portion of a person.

7) Is the hall where the exercises take place warm?

Yes, it is a pleasantly warm environment so that we will all be able to relax and feel comfortable. For people who get cold quickly, it is recommended to bring something to cover themselves with (e.g. a light blanket), although it will be warm enough and we will not be cold, even without any clothes.

8) How many attendees will be at this workshop?
This workshop is limited to 12 couples.

9) I plan to attend this workshop with my partner, will the teachers be touching us?
We have high respect for the personal boundaries and if someone expresses that he/she does not want to be touched by anyone else than his/her partner then we respect this. If this is not expressed the teacher touches the student in order to show the correct massage technique when the student is not doing it correctly.

10) What should I bring along?

Workshop attendees should bring the following items to the workshop:

  1. a mat on which a person being massaged lies; a 15 mm mat is recommended (can be bought at Decathlon or Intersport);
  2. a sheet or two big beach towels. The sheet or the towels are laid over the mat;
  3. massage oil, at least 200 ml (organic almond oil is recommended, available at DM);
  4. paper towels (2 rolls) to wipe our hands, because we do not want to have greasy hands after the workshop;
  5. if you wish, you can also bring a pillow to put under your head (when you are being massaged) or under your backside (when you are giving a massage).


More information and signing up at aleksander@HeartConnection.si… see you ☺

In the workshop, I obtained a lot of new awareness about my body and my partner’s body. Exploring sexuality and life force became even more interesting. The most important realisation for me was that I could free myself from all of the consequences of different kinds of abuse. After the workshop, I was incredibly relaxed and thankful, in spite of the traumas from my past. Whereas the vulnerability I had been trying to get rid of for a long time started to acquire a completely different dimension. It transformed itself into power.

Ema Bavcon
Aleksander and Urša shared knowledge and massage techniques in an extremely professional, respectful and loving way. In addition to learning the technique, the workshop also gave me a pleasant feeling of being fulfilled, not only as myself, but also in the sense of being connected with others. It was as if we were a single being, breathing in the rhythm of creation. The strong energy that we created was delightful and creative. You could feel it in the room. The whole workshop was, in a sense, a three-day meditation session. It’s what I liked about it – everything flowed, everything was open and charged with energy.

Video 1: About tantric massage (TV show ‘Hot Stuff with Lea’, 7 min)

Video 2: Sexual Blockages and Tantric Massage (TV show ‘Chatting over a Cup of Coffee’, 22 min)